Ni STEPHANIE BERNARDINO
AGAD naglabas si Nadine Lustre ng disclaimer patungkol sa kanyang interview sa Nylon Manila kung saan niya ibinahagi ang kanyang “healing” story.
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“Ima put this here before u get any ideas,” pahayag ni Nadine sa Twitter kasama ang meaning ng salitang “relationship.”
“The way in which two or more people or things are connected, or the state of being connected,” mababasa sa tweet.
“Qiqil acoe sa mga assumptions niyo ihh,”dagdag ni Nadine.
Well, ilang netizens ang mabilis na pumuna sa naging pahayag ni Nadine. Ayon sa isang online user, may mga assumptions tungkol sa aktres dahil nagko-contradicts umano ang sinasabi nito.
“Nadz if move on move on na masasaktan kalang if didikit ka kay james kahit may new gf na siya and imbes maka-heal ka lalo ka lang masasaktan gurl @hello_nadine.”
Ngunit ipinunto ni Nadine na it’s not her fault if people immediately think that “relationship” is all about “romantic.”
“Keep on blubbering still habol ng habol kay james parang asong na uul*l o asong naglalaway lang. tantanan mo kakahiya ka na. 2 to wks ago iba babae kasama at super sweet sila tapos ikaw panay dikit. umalis kana kasi si @bretjackson_ii at narez nga umalis na. NAKAKAAWA KA,” komento naman ng isa.
Hindi naman ito pinalampas ng aktres at tinugon sa pamamagitan ng pagtama sa spelling ng online user.
“It’s blabbering dzai,” sagot ni Nadine. Sa naging panayam ng Nylon, nagkuwento ang aktres kung paano siya nagbago at naging “strong-willed” person matapos ang mga masasakit na salitang ibinato sa kanya ng mga tao.
“I wouldn’t get to this mindset if it weren’t for that. Kunyare ako, a lot of people didn’t like me, even in production, which I couldn’t understand why. Parang ako naman, nice naman ako and all. But then it’s because of instances like that, which I’ll call bullying, that turned me into the woman that I am now — headstrong, doesn’t give a f*** what other people tell me. I listen to my heart and I do what I want to do,” paliwanag ni Nadine.
“That’s why all those haters or bashers online, it doesn’t affect me anymore. It’s because of their bullying that I became who I am now.”
Ngayon, mas kinder na umano ang aktres sa kanyang sarili. “For you to experience life to the fullest, you have to be open to experience everything, all of these emotions, all of these experiences, you know, whatever it is that life has to offer,” aniya. “I have been so open lately and allowing everything to come my way—may it be a bad experience or something that will make me sad, or something that will make me angry. I don’t stop myself from experiencing these things. Because at the end of the day, it changes you. It builds you.”
Nabanggit naman ni Nadine ang kanyang breakup bilang halimbawa kung paanong dati ay nais niyang matapos agad ito.
“Gusto ko, ‘pag tapos na, tapos, alam mo ‘yon? Or ‘pag may gusto akong mangyari, dapat mangyari na kaagad. But now, I’m allowing myself time to heal, to process things. Ganu’n kasi ako before, like in the breakup, which really changed me and my mindset,” aniya.
“Before, I wanted to get over it to not get hurt or overthink about it or feel bad…We tend to do that just because we don’t want to be affected. Again, I wouldn’t say I’m completely healed from that, like I’m still going through it. But this time, I’m allowing the time and I’m not rushing myself. It would take a long time, but I know I’ll get there.
