Viral at pinag-uusapan ngayon sa social media ang "Jollibee bag story" kung saan ibinahagi ng isang babaeng buntis ang pinagdaanan niyang hirap sa panganganak at sa hindi pag-intindi sa kaniya ng mister niya.
Kalat ngayon sa iba't ibang social media platforms ang kuwentong ibinahagi ng isang nanay sa TikTok, na sinimulan niya sa tanong na: What's your saddest Jollibee story?
Narito ang kaniyang kuwento:
Went through a traumatic experience giving birth at a public hospital. Alone for 16 hours of labor and in pain every 5 minutes. The nurses were nice, but the doctors were the opposite and would get mad at me for reaching to the pain I felt.
Reklamo ng isang ina sa guro: tinali na, tinapalan pa ng tape bibig ng anak niya?
Had IE checked 5 times and it was the worst pain ever, while laying on an uncleaned delivery bed, with blood stains of other people. All this while another woman 5 steps away from me is screaming in horror giving birth, no curtains or anything to divide us.
Doctor did a splinting to move my stool out, didn't wipe me or offer a napkin, but she just placed my old diaper back on. I gave birth where there were at least 10 students standing infront of me, one holding a phone which I noticed was taking a video without my consent.
Afterwards, one nurse gave me a bad look and told me to go take a bath. I was forced to take a cold bath after literally just giving birth, because they said there was no hot water available anymore. Feared I could die because it might not have been safe to take a cold bath. I felt I lost all my dignity.
Told everything to my husband, and all he said was "Okay lang yan. Tapos naman na." He gave me no eye contact, no comfort, just those plain words.
And the next day, he comes back to the hospital holding a paper bag of Jollibee. My eyes light up and say, "Hala love, sarap nyan!" And he says, "Sorry, Lab, sa akin lang to. Gutom na kasi talaga ako. Alam mo naman na puyat din ako naghihintay sayo. May libre naman na hospital food dyan, yun na lang sayo."
i watched him devour that Jollibee right infront of me like i hadn't just given birth, like i wasn't the exhausted one, the hungry one.
my point is, did it not cross his mind to order for two? and did he not have the smallest bit of empathy in him to simply give me a hug or rub on the back after opening up about how much my dignity had been taken away from me that day at the hospital?
i respected his decision to take a public hospital because we couldn't afford a private one at that time. hindi ako maarte or what, because even after going through all those things, inisip ko nalang mailabas ang baby namin at ang mahalaga talaga sakin ay maging safe at okay siya.
ang sakin lang, sana naging emotionally present siya sa araw na yun. but he wasn't. i felt as though i was just this person to give birth to his son. if only bumawi siya sakin in the following days and months after, but he didn't.
we had no money at that time, but when he started earning big, he couldn't even think to buy me something nice. yet he had the money to buy himself an iphone, two expensive airguns, and a motorcylce.
i am not posting these things so that people would pity me! writing and sharing these things are simply my way of finally releasing the pain that i kept to myself for too long. i did my best to save us. i watched him make himself, other people, games and television his priority over me and our son. and i kept quiet! infront of people, i painted him as this good husband and father, until it suddenly felt all so fake to me and i finally stopped tricking myself into thinking the good in him outweighed the bad. i waited for him to change. i begged him everytime. i didn't give up on him without first letting myself go through hell to save us before i finally realized i had to let him go...
Samantala, sa recent TikTok post niya, nagpasalamat ang babae sa mga nag-message sa kaniya para i-cheet up siya. Ngayon daw ay masaya na siya at hiwalay na silang mag-asawa.
"Im genuinely happy on my own now. my partner and i are no longer together. but despite the tragic things that's happened, im doing my best to be civil and communicate with him as we co-parent
"There's one good thing that came out from all this, it is seeing him finally stepping up to be a better dad to our son," dagdag pa niya.
Aniya, sana raw ay maging lesson sa mga tao ang kaniyang naging karanasan.
"I hope my life, story and experiences don't go to waste but be a lesson to everyone, to the future mom and dads to the pregnant women, to those planning to get married to the single individuals, and to anyone who has read and come across my post.
"God is good and I trust His plan even if it doesn't align with the plans of my heart, it is His purpose that will prevail."
