Nag-post ng open letter sa kaniyang social media platform si Miss Trans Global 2020 at LGBTQIA+ advocate Mela Habijan sa aktres at misis ni Derek Ramsay na si Ellen Adarna, tungkol sa "gender diversity."

Viral kasi ang pagsagot ni Ellen sa tanong sa kaniya ng netizen kung anong masasabi niya sa "situationship."

Anang Ellen, masakit sa bangs at confusing ang iba't ibang pronouns ngayon na may kaugnayan sa LGBTQIA+ community.

"It's as confusing as the non-binary gender, pronouns that is out right now," anang Ellen.

Sey naman ni Mela, "Dear Ellen (and to those who currently think like her), I welcome your thoughts. And while it is confusing, a true compassionate and respectful person will try to learn and understand."

https://twitter.com/missmelahabijan/status/1738465547564781774

"Parang Math. It is confusing but we try to learn it because it will teach us the value of logic. It also allows us how to embrace problems and finding solutions."

https://twitter.com/missmelahabijan/status/1738465553675907478

"Above all, appreciating Math, no matter how confusing it is, let’s us discover that there’s no single or absolute solution to a problem."

https://twitter.com/missmelahabijan/status/1738465560822943924

"Understanding that there is gender diversity — kahit gaano man ito kasakit sa bangs mo — won’t hurt you. But it will help you gain a deeper appreciation of human life."

https://twitter.com/missmelahabijan/status/1738465565688361235

"I hope you become more open, be patient, and be compassionate of people who are not like you. 💖🌈."

"Because if your kid happens to tell you that they are non-binary, I think you will try your best to learn."

"PS. AKO, IKAW, AT SIYA are non-binary pronouns," pahayag pa ni Mela.

https://twitter.com/missmelahabijan/status/1738465574806806698

Umani naman ito ng iba't ibang reaksiyon at komento mula sa mga netizen.

"I didn’t find the remarks of @ellenaadarna to be offensive. I am a part of the LGBTQ comm and up tp now its really confusing kasi ang daming sumusulpot na bagong identity. Proof na yung LGBT lang nun tapos ngayon may QIA+++ na…"

"Sana i-respeto niyo rin yung paniniwala namin na there's just only XX and XY. Nothing else, when you die and get rotten in the woods, your pathologist who will handle your remains will only indicate a male or a female in their report not binary."

"Hi Mela, good thing she didn’t say anything worse. She just said she’s confused (nothing else) but you are also right, she has to learn and understand so she doesn’t get confused."

"While I understand entirely your point, I think there was nothing wrong with what Ellen said. She’s just confused by it. 😅 im solely basing it on the screenshots, not the video. Did she say anything more?"

"With all the problems that we're experiencing right now pati ba nman gender identity and labels proproblemahin pa ba natin? Im gay, dress up like men, act like one and Im ok with just being gay."