Marami ang naantig sa kuwentong ibinahagi ng estudyanteng magtatapos sa kursong Bachelor of Science in Business Management (๐๐ฆ๐๐ ) major in Human Resource Management (๐๐ฅ๐ ) sa Cavite State University na si "Kayle G. Tumbagahan" at kauna-unahang "magna cum laude" sa kanilang pamilya.
Kapansin-pansin kasi ang graduation photo niya na may mababasang "Gragraduate na pinag-uusapan ni Classmate" habang makikita naman ang iba't ibang screenshots mula sa social media, kung saan mababasa ang conversation threads patungkol sa kaniya.
Naranasan daw ni Kayle ang "pamba-backstab" sa kaniya.
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"I never thought I'd ever experience things like this, especially in my college years as this behavior is very childlike. I was backstabbed by those I thought were people that I could get along with. For a full year, I stayed true and positive, yet unaware of how I became a topic of inconsiderate, untrue, and self-centered people."
"The kind of people that are two-faced being 'good' yet talk bad whenever you're not around. People that will make someone you never met hate you. People that will even talk literally about how you fold your sleeves."
"All of this started on one certain project I handled within our section. I found out about this group chat a year later, whilst interacting yet being blind to the intentions of these people that same year. The day I found out what was going on, I was shattered and hurt."
"As I browse through their conversation with 133 matched results (probably more now) when you search my name in their gc, it was a mixed feeling. It felt funny how they accustomed my name with their weird nicknames. I felt disappointed because I was being true and I treated them with respect."
"I felt bad for other people whom they are talking ill with. It's sad that they even took screenshots of my posts and stories to judge it with their cruel words. I felt angry and was literally shaking as it triggered my anxiety, questioning myself as they blame me for their 1.50 grade. But I also felt great as this became my motivation to soar higher than before."
"What I felt most for these people is the feeling of pity. Pity for these people that will talk about your personal choices. Pity for these people that is bad-mouthing about your classmates and teachers. Pity for these people that will even involve others that don't personally know you in the academic institution, just to verify if you're a dean's lister. Pity for hoping I was not. It is my greatest pleasure to see you looking at me on that stage getting that degree with a Magna Cum Laude award, and a CHRA passer."
"I never got the guilt in their hearts when they knew that Chismis 101 has reached me. In fact, they still felt great and unbothered by their actions. I understand and learned that as a leader, not all people will like you and your choices. But that doesn't mean you won't bring out the best of the people you handle."
"I am trained by experience and my people before knew greatness in me, by not being perfect and open to progress and improvement. I was blind by how you see me, yet you're all blind that you didn't see how genuine I am."
"I thank these hands seen in this photo as they are the ones that had believed and supported me throughout my course major. These hands also represent all of my friends that didn't do this kind of childish act. My friends that will face and correct me whenever I did something wrong. My friends that became my helping hand on my problems, and celebrated with me on my success."
Sa huling bahagi ng kaniyang post, "To the people who talked behind my back, especially to those people in Chismis 101 group chat, I also wanted to greet you all with gratitude as you taught me a great lesson. I hope you all get the fulfillment of hating me as our graduation day approaches. I wish you well in your future endeavors and still, congratulations on ending this milestone. Padayon."
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