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INAMIN ni Kendra Wilkinson Baskett na ang pagpapakasal niya kay Hank Baskett ay hindi ang uri ng relasyon na inasam niya para sa sarili.

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“The marriage was never a walk in the park. They had a lot of issues, whether it was his lack of longevity in his career to his Super Bowl fiasco to her postpartum depression to his infidelity to money and career problems. … It just never was the fairytale she wanted,” lahad sa PEOPLE ng source na malapit kay Kendra sa Top star — na napaiyak nitong Lunes habang ibinabahagi ang kanilang marital difficulties sa social media.

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Nagpakasal sina Kendra, 32, at Hank, 35, noong 2009 at nagkaroon ng anak si Hank IV, 8, at si Alijah, 3. Ang kanilang pagsasama ay sinubok ng eskandalo noong 2014 nang umano’y nagkaroon ng relasyon si Hank sa isang transgender model habang walong buwang buntis si Kendra.

Sinabi ng source kamakailan sa PEOPLE na umalis na si Hank sa bahay nila at naghahanda na para sa opisyal na pakikipaghiwalay.

Habang tinatalakay ang mga pagsubok na hinarap ng couple, inamin ng source sa PEOPLE na, “They fought a lot… but the cheating rocked her because if anything what she thought she had was her sexuality and Hank’s devotion.”

At ang pinakamalaking problema ng dalawa ay dahil “they never grew to the next level.”

“He just ended up being such a dud and it frustrated her. They never grew to the next level. It was always her driving the career and fame and money. It stopped working around 2014 and they held on but that’s when it went downhill,” dagdag pa ng source.

Isang linggo makaraang isiwalat ng ilang source sa PEOPLE na maghihiwalay na ang dalawa, pagkaraan ng halos siyam na taong pagsasama, umiiyak na ibinunyag ng dating Playboy model na “(I) did everything I could” upang maging maayos ang kanilang relasyon, sa sunud-sunod na emotional videos na kanyang ipinost sa kanyang Instagram Story.

“Ten years,” umiiyak na sabi niya nitong Lunes. “I did everything I could. It wasn’t good enough. I will always love him and my heart will always remain open for him. I believed in forever, I really did. Guess it’s just not meant to be. I’m so scared, but I have to get strong for my kids — I will.”

Nag-tweet din siya ng malungkot na mensahe sa kanyang followers.

“Today will be the saddest, scariest day of my life,” post niya. “Today I will have to be the strongest I’ve ever been. Today, my rebirth begins.”

Una nang sinabi ng source sa PEOPLE na, “Both Kendra and Hank fought really hard for their marriage and never thought it would come down to this.”

“They really worked through a lot, but just couldn’t get on the same page. They’re both devastated,” pagtutuloy ng source.

Ang dating NFL player “is the ultimate family man and is not the type to get married just to get divorced,” anang source, at sinabi pang, “they want to do what’s best for their kids.”