Nagbigay ng payo ang sex therapist na si Dr. Rica Cruz sa mga kapuwa niya babaeng nahihiya o nakakaramdam ng guilt pagdating sa usapin ng sex.
Sa latest episode ng “Morning Matters” nitong Biyernes, Abril 4, sinabi ni Cruz na kailangan umanong kilalanin ng kababaihan ang mga nabanggit na pakiramdam.
“Unang-una, kunyari you have sex, right? You have that shame. You need to acknowledge that shame; that it is okay to feel that shame. Because we condition in that way, e, ‘di ba?” saad ni Cruz.
“But then,” pasubali niya, “you also have to tell yourself that being sexual wellness is not a violation of who you are as a person.”
Dagdag pa niya, “Because guilt and shame comes from you thinking that you’re violating your own standard and your violating society. It’s not a violation. It’s actually a celebration.”
Ayon kay Cruz, ang nagtulak daw sa kaniya na pasukin ang sex therapy ay ang mga karanasan niya sa mga negatibong kuwento tungkol sa sex habang lumalaki.
“But it was only when I was already an adult when I married my husband—first husband—and he stop having sex with me. And it affected me as a person; as a women,” dugtong pa niya.